Wednesday Update

Tom and Linda spent the day in Ann Arbor learning more about the tumor that was removed and future treatment options. Sadly, we learned that the tumor was malignant. While we were all prepared for the news, it is a tough pill to swallow and we are still learning what that means for the future. What we do know is that Tom will start radiation therapy in about three weeks. He may also start chemotherapy and other treatments if it is determined that the tumor had a higher grade malignancy. We're hoping that he can receive most of the treatment in Lansing.

While the news is certainly not what we were hoping for, at this point I can't help but think of things that I am thankful for. The amount of people that have contacted me with their well-wishes, prayers, and stories has been amazing. It is fun for me to read the messages and I know how much my parents appreciate it. I also think about the support that my parents have through family. Since my dad is one of 13 kids, there is plenty of family to go around. I've always thought the Hundt clan was the biggest, greatest family in the world. There might be bigger families out there (not that I've ever heard of one), but there certainly couldn't be a better one. While the Oakes side is considerably more "normal size" they, too, have displayed those central traits of support that make up a loving family. On a more practical level, I am also thankful that the initial surgery went so well. Tom hasn't had any side effects from the surgery, retaining all of his cognitive and motor abilities and, most importantly, his sense of humor.

I am most thankful for the strength my mom and dad have displayed, which they obviously draw from each other. My parents have always had a good relationship, but I have never seen them more open, in-tune, and happy with each other. They have found the real meaning to the advice we always hear but are rarely able to follow - live for today, make the most out of each moment, and don't take anything for granted.